Are you listening, or waiting to speak?
When we converse do we really listen to what others are saying?
American writer and poet Alice Duer Miller wrote:-
“People love to talk but hate to listen. Listening is not merely not talking; though even that is beyond most of our powers; it means taking a vigorous, human interest in what is being told us. You can listen like a blank wall or like a splendid auditorium where every sound comes back richer and fuller.”
That made me think that if we truly listened to each other on a personal and international level a lot of the world’s problems would be solved, or more importantly would never develop and if we are not capable of listening to each other, what, realistically, are our chances of hearing God’s voice, actually listening to and understanding what He says?
To listen we have to focus our attention on the speaker, the better we listen, the better we understand. To listen to God we have to focus on Him. “So take care how you listen; for whoever has, to him more shall be given, and whoever does not have, even that he thinks he has shall be taken away from him.” Luke 18:8.
So in speaking, listen to what you are saying so you:-
“SPEAK in such a way that others love to LISTEN to you, and LISTEN in such a way that others love to SPEAK to you.” Anon.
Do the same for Almighty God.
Bill Lee
King’s Lynn Christian Fellowship
Life as a Christian has changed irreversibly since my wife and I became parents nearly five years ago. Whilst our two daughters are beautiful gifts from God, getting to church involves the kind of military precision that only an 18-month-old’s toileting habits can undermine. On the (many) days when I play guitar in the church band, my wife’s time is juggled between stopping our youngest from throwing her snack out of the buggy, and stopping our oldest from rushing the stage. It’s not always conducive to contemplative worship. We don’t call our under-5s work Livewires for nothing.
One of the things I learnt when I moved to King’s Lynn is that it always snows during the Mart. And so it has for a good few years, but not this year! That will be a relief for flooded Britain! My wife assures me that “rain before seven, dry by eleven.” That’s not been true in recent months either. A more reliable weather saying is “Red Sky at night, shepherd’s delight. Red sky in the morning shepherd’s warning.” That saying has been around for thousands of years and is a pretty reliable weather indicator (IMHO!) 